The “Living Your Beauty as a Greying Goddess” Program

During the last several years as I have worked, studied and socialized with many of you, I began to think about the concerns and challenges women face around aging – from greying hair to body changes to a shift in how we, as mature women, want to express ourselves in the world. This includes, of course, how we dress; yet our concerns are much deeper than that. Our culture has had a profound effect on the way we perceive older women and how society, in turn, perceives us.

My intention for creating this program is to help women give voice to their fears around aging, to establish a bonded and thoughtful relationship with their aging body and to cultivate a new, different and creative approach to aging – as an opportunity to be explored, rather than a problem to be solved. This is the essential inner shift that supports you in claiming and expressing your authentic beauty as the glorious woman you are, no matter what the rest of our world says about how older women are “supposed to” look. This is the crucial foundation upon which you can throw off the cloak of invisibility modern culture puts on older women, unabashedly stand strong in your feminine power, and share the wisdom you’ve earned from life.

My big vision is to help and support as many maturing women as I can through this new program. Think about all the women you know that are aging but are confused and frustrated because they’re no longer part of the matrix of society in the way they were as younger women. Have you been shopping lately? Seen anything that is striking and made specifically for the mature woman in color, cut and style? Have you seen women in the media that you can relate to, that you feel aligned with – a woman that would understand how you feel? Most marketing is tailored to the younger woman. An interesting juxtaposition because the older woman has more purchasing power than most younger women, yet we are no longer being considered at the table where products are being developed.

“At 63 years young, I am choosing to be seen on my terms and to spend money in ways
that support my well-being. I am taking my place in society as a woman of beauty,
wisdom and power. I wish this for every aging woman. I want it for you!” – Denise Lampron


 

Living Your Beauty as a Greying Goddess: Becoming Ever More Fully Your Glorious Self as You Age is a 30-day program that includes 4 one-on-one sessions from the comfort of your home via phone or Skype.


Schedule a free 30-minute consultation

with Denise to see if this is the right program for you!

Greying Goddess

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall – Is that a Grey Hair I See or Silver Strands of Wisdom?

Grey GirlOften it is the changing color of our hair that signals to us our aging process. When, actually, we are always aging from the moment we are born. Yet, it is on the first sign of grey, white, silver or platinum hair emerging from our temples, when we seriously begin to think of aging. Aging! And those strands of silver, grey, or white arrive with powerful, cultural messages: “Grey hair is a sign of old age.”

We then begin the personal conversation, “What does this mean?” “How will I be perceived at work, among friends, my lover, husband, partner?” “Am I still attractive?” “Will I be cast aside for my younger counterpart, both professionally and personally?”

Not one woman I have spoken with about this topic has avoided using the word “fear.” As if changing hair color is a clear warning sign that danger lies ahead. We are turning a corner we don’t yet know how to navigate in our bigger world, or our inner world. We know in our bones and in our hearts that something is changing and we are powerless to stop it. Yes, we can dye our hair, get Botox injections or tummy tucks, but it does not change the underlying process our precious bodies are undergoing; and on some level we know this. If not done with awareness, each attempt to thwart the aging process can potentially rob us of an opportunity to gain the wisdom, power and beauty of this time in a woman’s life.


Aging, like living, is a verb. It is action-oriented and implies movement.
Aging does not happen overnight. It is a process.


How “The Greying Goddess” got its name

The “greying” is to honor the time involved in the aging process. When stepping (either willingly, hesitantly or with resistance) into a timely process – like aging — it can allow for curiosity and personal growth. And this is where your Greying Goddess experience can begin. Where you can experience the physical, emotional, psychological, intellectual and energetic shifts of aging. Where you can be present and participate in all the processes, progressions, setbacks (yes, that can happen too) and developments offered by your greying goddess. Where you can meet this powerful new force of woman that desires to take up residence in your life. Where you can open to liberation and different choices for the next chapter in your life. It takes patience and understanding. And sometimes it involves a scary ride, a dark moment, and a new way of being, all leading to a transformation. You can bypass the impossible standards of our culture. You can create a new identity. You can feed your deepest desires.

Why Goddess? I had a Native American great grandmother. She spoke of “elders” with reverence. I remember her using the term “white hairs” with respect. I desire to bring great honor and dignity among aging women in our culture. And what better way to suggest the divine feminine than to use the word Goddess. I believe every aging woman (and it’s hard to place an age to “aging,” you will know when you have arrived) has earned this distinction. My intention is that every woman finds the courage to embrace her Greying Goddess.

Greying Goddess is a space, a forum and place where mature women can visit who are ready to liberate themselves from the clutches of an age-averse culture and the confines of how modern culture says older woman should look and live.

I encourage you to say YES to your Greying Goddess and wholeheartedly embrace her!


What If …

  • What if grey, white, silver, or platinum hair was a sign of wisdom, achievement, value, freedom and respect?
  • What if beauty took on a previously unimaginable radiance?
  • What if personal identity was defined by creativity and authenticity?
  • What if spirituality arrived with faith, profound truths and mystery?
  • What if you are becoming ever more fully your glorious self as you age?
  • What if your Soul is a constant loving presence serving you on this journey?
  • What if you are a role model for young women demonstrating how to age with confidence and grace?
  • What if you are leaving a legacy that shifts cultural stereotypes and changes the world?

 

Introducing the “Living Your Beauty as a Greying Goddess” Program

The intention of this program is to help YOU, the aging woman, gather your gifts, embrace your evolving wisdom, discover the most exquisite expression of your aging imperfect beauty (wabi sabi style), harness your power, and savor this truly extraordinary time of life. Claim and live your fully glorious self as you age! Learn more about this program and why I created it.

 

2015 Color of the Year – Marsala

MarsalaHark! There is a new lady in town and her name is Marsala. She is the 2015 Color of the Year. Marsala is spicy and enchanting. I know you are going to fall for this sultry, wine-inspired color.

Along with Marsala’s arrival, this week brings us the Fall Equinox, and the official end of Summer — Wednesday, September 23rd to be exact. It is one of the two days during the year in which day and night are of equal length, reminding us of the potency and power of balance.

This seasonal shift also offers cooler days the Earth feels and appears more abundant and there is a richness of color, as contrasted by the Summer warmth and her muted colors. There is a bit of excitement in the air with a hint of anticipation of something to come. Marsala is the ideal hostess of color to transition us to Autumn.

I Marsala headerencourage you to consider this sumptuous shade. She is dramatic, yet earthy, elegant and refined. It is pleasing to many skin tones and with a hint of brown, it works for you lovely ladies of warmer palettes. And since she is the child of Red, those of you who lean toward passion will benefit from her lusciousness too. If not a gorgeous tulle skirt or sexy silk gown, then try Lady Marsala on as a lipstick, or nail lacquer. Invite her in, your experience will be enriched by her.

I’ll step aside and let Leatrice Eiseman, my teacher and Executive Director of the Pantone Color Institute, speak to you about marvelous Marsala!

Lee Eiseman YouTube

Walk in Beauty,

Denise


Color Pairing Ideas:

Marsala with Oak Buff

Marsala with Oak Buff

Oak Bluff with Cool Colors

Oak Bluff with Cooler Colors

Cadmium Orange

Cadmium Orange pairings

 Dried Herb and Desert SageDried Herb and Desert Sage


Pantone Fall 2015 Color Grid:

Fall Color Grid

Pantone Fall 2015 Grid

Which of these colors “pop” for you? You can choose as many as you like. Leave a comment below. We’d love to receive your feedback!

** New colors added daily. Come back and visit often!

Biscay Bay

Biscay Bay

Cashmere Rose

Cashmere Rose

Dried Herb for Gents and Interiors

Dried Herb for Gents and Interiors

Stormy Weather

Stormy Weather

 

 

Essence is the Key to Your Style

Can you remember when you noticed someone in colors or clothing that seemed to “identify” them and completely captured their spirit or personality? To you, their outfit may have appeared kooky, inappropriate, and loud or lacking class, yet their walk, demeanor and attitude conveyed a comfort and confidence that had you smiling at their moxie and almost appreciating their style? I sure can (but, hey, I live in LA).

Last year I discovered New York’s Advanced Style “movement” via Ari Seth Cohen (courtesy of his grandmother). These women are pure inspiration! Neither age, nor “appropriateness” have thwarted a keen sense of themselves and how creatively they showcase their outfits. They have mastered their personal style.

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I created a color palette for a lovely woman who fell into the Autumn category (warm coloring, gorgeous red hair, smart and capable, with a small frame and large personality). I also created a Pinterest Board for her loaded with Ralph Lauren velvet jackets, rich brown boots, textured vests, and all manner of the Autumn woman. It was an enjoyable project, and I thought I had depicted her style. She recently showed up sporting a Kelly green (admittedly, an Autumn color) denim jacket. I was slightly surprised at the brightness of the hue and style (she had swapped clothing with a “Spring” friend), but I liked it on her. She spoke of having grabbed wild attention in her harem pants at a recent event, and tales of another admirer on her polka dot skirt — huh? I was momentarily baffled. Then I realized this woman is brilliantly expressing her essence! I had overlooked this important aspect of her style.

Afterwards, when we talked about her clothing choices, FUN was at the top of her list (she has recently announced that she will be going to “Clown School’), and her clothing choices must make her feel happy. She also wants to look chic for her TV script meetings, as well as her frequent trips to France. She is an Autumn woman with a Fierce Fun Factor! And this combo of Fire and Fun must be present in her clothing.

Essence Isn’t Always Obvious

It may need teasing out, or full on permission to take up space in your style profile. Or perhaps you simply stumble upon it with fascination, and want more. However it shows up in your life and arrives at your wardrobe door, this is the key to your individuality and unique style.

Have you ever tried on a hat and knew immediately this was your look?” How about a dress that landed solidly around your curves with a pattern that pin-pointed your personality? Or little black booties with skinny leg jeans that let the world know you’re an edgy kind of woman? A flowing skirt with ruffled blouse that softly suggests your romantic nature? An elegant, perfectly-tailored suit announcing your classic, capable, confident self?  You are following the Whisperings of your Soul and discovering your personal style.

So, what is this quality that can turn mere clothing into a form of pure creativity? A pair of shoes whose pointed toes and metallic patina turn your walk into a self-expressing skip? It is our Essence. Essence lives in our core. When we express our Essence, we show our Soul.

My client’s Soul wants kelly green, polka dots, harem pants, along with a dose of chic. And now, I clearly understand that “playful” is part of her style. She gave me a great gift — as a colorist and stylist — look way beyond the obvious to find that spark that wants to come forward and show itself in a client’s wardrobe. The Soul will now have its rightful place in my client’s colors and style, because Essence surpasses everything.

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Your Soul, Your Essence

Some of us intuitively know how to stand apart and distinguish ourselves, as illustrated in the photos to the right. For others, such as myself, it takes time to discover the tone of your Soul, the creative call of your core. A great place to begin is with “Essence” words, such as: ALIVE, ANIMATED, BRIGHT, REFINED, DELICATE, FLOWING, FUN, EARTHY, BOLD, RICH, DRAMATIC, STRIKING, SERENE.

If you intuitively respond to an essence word, then you know this is a key to your Essence and Style. Once you have a list of words that you and your Soul relate to, begin to match them with clothing. Look for confirmation of your choice — a “ping” experience, your eyes sparkle, you feel great wearing this garment or there is a deep satisfying “YES” that emerges when you see yourself. Scarves are one key to my Essence. They provide the lightweight, drape and abstract pattern I demand. Give it a try. Discover your Essence.

Contact me for a list of Essence words.

To your Essence,

Denise

Intuition and the Power of Red

Ever since I hit a forklift while learning to ride a motorbike – when my intuition clearly and loudly warned me “You will crash” – I have been paying much more attention to that small voice that comes with a wallop when ignored (I have the lump on my leg to prove it)!

It’s about one month into my “listening experiment” and I’m running late for an appointment, yet it was imperative that I choose the right shade of red lipstick for my new mesh t-shirt.

MAC Russian Red lipstickI’m on my way.  Then, “Stop at Whole Foods for a breakfast beverage.”  The voice was speaking.  “But I’m running behind schedule.”   Denise wasn’t listening.  Once again, the voice suggests, “Stop for a breakfast beverage.”  I stopped.

The moment I walked in the door, I saw a young man eyeing me.  “Good morning …” he announced.”  I smiled at him and was about to return the greeting when I heard his last word – “… gorgeous.”  Gulp.   This red lipstick works!  “Hey, there!  Good morning and thank you.”
Next, I jostled with a clerk for aisle space.  And he said, “Wow, next time, let’s dance.” 

By now, I was feeling really good.  Isn’t that the whole point?  To feel good?  Suddenly, I realized the wild and wonderful possibilities that lie at the intersection of intuition and red.  Well, intuition and any street, really.  It took hitting the wall (quite literally) to drive home the message how vital listening to my intuition can be.  And it took years for me to embrace the bright red crimson shade in my color palette.  On one rainy Los Angeles morning, red packed it’s powerful punch into my awareness.  It can happen anywhere, anytime.  And wearing red helps.

 

What’s Red Got to Do With It?

Red for all seasonsWe all know the power of red and the demanding presence it creates.  Red will not be ignored!  It’s the most physical color and activates our body and senses.   Studies show that men find women more desirable when she wears red; and we’re told it’s not a good idea to wear red to an interview (too overpowering).  With many hues, red can be romantic, soft, subtle (light pink), theatrical and playful (bright pink), exciting, provocative sexy (bright red) and rich, elegant, luxurious and robust (deep red).

Many months ago I uploaded an image to Pinterest, illustrating the dynamic, hot, passionate, and energizing quality of red.  This image has been the highest-ranking pin on my Pinterest account with 100s of re-pins and over 4,000 views.  People are attracted to Red!

 

A Red for All Seasons

Red weaves itself throughout the year in various celebratory forms: pinks for Easter (a tinted version of red), the soft dusky rose colors of the hot summer holidays (a greyed red), the spicy oranges of Thanksgiving (a toned or browned version of red), and the call to pure red with Winter’s arrival and the holiday season.

 

Romantic RedsYour Red Hue

So, how best to express your Red?  In color analysis, red is often referred to as “romantic red” and is worn when one wants to be emotionally persuasive or just romantic!  Everyone can claim a shade of red.  The clue lies in your skin tone.  Take a look at the palms of your hands and squeeze your fingertip.  Voila!  You are looking at your hemoglobin skin tone or romantic red.

 

How will hue wear your Red?

Pinch your finger or call for a professional color analysis.

 

Walk in Beauty,

Denise

  Jack Lenor Larsen quote on Red

Summer Wardrobing

Summer Summons Our Soul

HammockAfter the great push of Spring that brings us glorious flowers, rain showers and a warm welcome from the Winter, Summer summons our soul. A time to slow down and reflect. Our bodies know. It’s Summer. For many, Summer is a signal that it’s time to play, a vacation with friends at the beach or simply a time to slow down in the heat of the season. Summer can be a reminder of long ago when that last 3 pm school bell rang in June, not to be heard again until September. And that joyous rush home with the anticipation of an entire Summer to create memories that would be fodder for our sure assignment in Fall — How I Spent My Summer Vacation!

I don’t know about you, but it’s been many a year since I experienced the rush of 3 months off with nothing but free time, lemonade and weekend trips to the beach. Although I do not long for my school days, I often ponder having my Summer off with plenty of time for the adult version of play — weekend road trips with friends, a wine festival, a jazz concert in an open field with finger sandwiches, wine coolers and lots of laughter. In our high tech lives, the iPhones never stop ringing or buzzing with a text message and the emails are endless. It takes a determination to carve that Summer time out for ourselves. Will you take a stand with me for having some down time this Summer? I say, let the Summer sun kiss our skin and the Summer fun begin. And, of course, that means preparing a wardrobe that supports various activities, having a great time and looking terrific!

Packing for Summer Travel

I’m headed to Northern California for a weekend wedding in July, followed by hiking in the surrounding mountains, then back to San Francisco for shopping and dinner with friends. My last stop is Los Gatos for a visit with one of my color teachers and mentors. Packing for this trip is tricky. I will be wearing very different types of clothing in a short span of time, along with varying temperatures and terrain. A client introduced me to wonderful bags that take the angst out of packing. They are ideal for lingerie, tank tops and sleep wear, leaving lots of room for the bigger, bulkier items. Eagle Creek Packing Sets.


Storing Out of Season Clothing

1.  Store clothes in the main part of the home; avoid storing clothing in attics and basements. Clean garments before storing.

2.  Hang clothing on good quality hangers, not thin wire ones.

3.  Never store clothes in plastic dry cleaner bags; the chemicals in the plastic will damage garments. Use fabric garment bags.

4.  Don’t hang knits or beaded garments that will stretch out. Store them in acid-free cardboard boxes or sturdy plastic bins. Lay sweaters flat or use acid-free tissue between folds to avoid creases.

5.  Don’t use mothballs; the smell is almost impossible to remove and the chemicals are harmful to skin and eyes. Use bags of cedar and herbs. Don’t put cedar blocks directly on clothes (the oil might stain fabric); instead wrap them in acid-free tissue.

6.  Store pricey cashmere in the freezer. Put the item in a zip-top plastic bag with some cotton batting to absorb moisture. The cold will kill insects and keep fabric fresh.

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